Some families aren’t so lucky. Most of my clients are persons whose families live far away. I become involved with them on a professional level that segues into a much more personal avenue. You see, I’m a surrogate daughter. Debra J. Sorensen & Associates Inc., a new profession for nurses, social workers, and other professionals, provides oversight of seniors and disabled persons to the extent that a son or daughter would do themselves if they had the time and the resources, And the added benefit is that I get to know some really interesting and wonderful people. The adult children, like me, have the peace of mind that their parents’ independence is being promoted while their safety and health is protected. So when I start thinking that I should have spent more time with my own grandparents, or that it would be nice to have a long conversation with my dad, I take pride in my work, and enjoy the moments with my clients. And maybe I make an extra visit on Father’s Day, no charge.
I love to hear historical stories of persons’ lives. And since I’m not a native Toledoan, it’s even more fascinating for me to hear about the people that grew up in the children’s home on River Road in Maumee; the people who worked at the glass factory downtown and walked home to the Polish village through the cemetery. These are the stories that make up our history, our lives.
So, this Father’s Day, if your dad isn’t in town, or maybe has left this world... go visit someone else’s dad. It’s the most rewarding visit you’ll make all year. Ask them to tell their stories. Learn about our history, and about the people around you. My dad has given me that appreciation for life and for stories. Thanks, Dad.
